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Rough 3 Weeks...

Postby Feelin' Fowl » Thu May 30, 2013 8:21 pm

Mother's Day morning, were getting ready to see the families and prepare to tell everyone that our little girl is going to be a big sister when my wife starts what we now know as a threatened miscarry. Lots of time in the ER, and some Dr. visits tell us that only time will tell if this will work out. A few more appointments, and things are looking better.

Today our fear was realized when there was no longer a heartbeat.

It's been a trying few weeks, and we will face a few more in the near future as the process comes to a close. We are thankful for the child we have, but it's tough to see a heartbeat, knowing that your child is there, and then have it disappear a few days later...everything happens for a reason, and yes the 50/50 applies here as well, but it still suck.
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Postby assateague » Thu May 30, 2013 8:26 pm

I feel your pain. Prayers sent up for all of you. These things have a way of working out, brother.
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Postby flight control » Thu May 30, 2013 8:30 pm

Sorry to hear that man. Thoughts and prayers sent out.
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Postby rebelp74 » Thu May 30, 2013 8:32 pm

Very sorry to hear this. Prayers sent bro, hope all goes well for you and your family.
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Postby Redbeard » Thu May 30, 2013 8:34 pm

Praying for ya brother
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Postby jehler » Thu May 30, 2013 8:35 pm

Been there, head up and keep
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Postby Feelin' Fowl » Thu May 30, 2013 8:37 pm

Thanks boys. Truly appreciated...
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Postby Goldfish » Thu May 30, 2013 8:40 pm

I'm sorry to hear that. When the time is right, things will happen.

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Postby bill herian » Thu May 30, 2013 8:45 pm

Hate to hear it.

Prayers for you and yours. Stay strong bud.
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Postby MuddyWaterWarlock » Thu May 30, 2013 8:47 pm

Sorry to hear dude. You and your wife keep your chins up. :thumbsup:
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Postby The Duck Hammer » Thu May 30, 2013 8:47 pm

That's terrible man. Praying for y'all in Texas.
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Postby Tiler_J » Thu May 30, 2013 9:04 pm

Sorry to hear that. My wife had a miscarriage our first time trying to have kids. It is a horrible feeling. You and your wife will be in my thoughts. Try and stay as positive and supportive as you can with her. I know with my wife, she admitted later, she felt like it was her fault. That she could have done something different and everything would have been fine.

You are right though, it does suck! Take care of and enjoy your family. My condolences.
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Postby 3legged_lab » Thu May 30, 2013 9:27 pm

Sorry to hear that man, been down that road too. Just give her time, women usually take it pretty rough.
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Postby DeadEye_Dan » Thu May 30, 2013 9:31 pm

So sorry to hear. Life is a precious, precious thing and I'm sure it hurts to go through this.

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Postby Pungo » Thu May 30, 2013 10:18 pm

Sorry to hear that, Praying for you. My mom had a miscarriage when I was young. A few years later, they had my brother. They had decided to stop at 2 kids no matter what. Can't help but think about the brother I was blessed with, he would not be here if it wasn't for the miscarriage. God has a plan, stay strong!
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Postby GadwallGetter530 » Thu May 30, 2013 10:22 pm

Sorry man, it's a hard thing to go threw.
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Postby Feelin' Fowl » Thu May 30, 2013 11:17 pm

Thanks for the support. Lots of good advice in here...she'll appreciate it.
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Postby jarbo03 » Thu May 30, 2013 11:22 pm

Prayers sent for you and the family, been there myself, it is a terrible feeling. Stay strong.

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Postby BrewGUN » Fri May 31, 2013 4:07 am

Prayers brotha, definitely a hard thing to deal with, stay strong.
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Postby Rick » Fri May 31, 2013 5:34 am

The little fellow who slept between his grandmother and I last night came about after a series of heartbreaking miscarriages. Tough all around but especially a "roller coaster" for your wife, from what I've seen. Be there and be patient and you'll get through it alright.
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Postby aunt betty » Fri May 31, 2013 6:06 am

Sorry to hear it.
If it helps...we lost one too.
I didn't speak a word for almost three MONTHS after ours. (hard to imagine)
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Postby OGblackcloud » Fri May 31, 2013 9:34 am

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Postby Tomkat » Fri May 31, 2013 10:14 am

God has a plan FF.

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Postby Ducky192 » Fri May 31, 2013 1:50 pm

YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS BUDDY.
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Postby one2many » Fri May 31, 2013 2:04 pm

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Postby quacknstack6 » Fri May 31, 2013 8:13 pm

Prayers sent for you and the family man, I can't begin to understand what it its like... Keep your head up everything will be fine.

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Re: Rough 3 Weeks...

Postby Feelin' Fowl » Mon Jun 03, 2013 12:38 am

Surgery in the AM. Anxious to get this part over with and start moving on.

Thanks again boys.

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Postby AKPirate » Mon Jun 03, 2013 1:21 am

Prayers sent from AK for you and your family FF.
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Postby rebelp74 » Mon Jun 03, 2013 1:46 am

Feelin' Fowl wrote:Surgery in the AM. Anxious to get this part over with and start moving on.

Thanks again boys.

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Hope all goes well bro, prayers continued.
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Postby grizz18 » Mon Jun 03, 2013 9:05 am

PRayers and thought sent.
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