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Rough 3 Weeks...

PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:21 pm
by Feelin' Fowl
Mother's Day morning, were getting ready to see the families and prepare to tell everyone that our little girl is going to be a big sister when my wife starts what we now know as a threatened miscarry. Lots of time in the ER, and some Dr. visits tell us that only time will tell if this will work out. A few more appointments, and things are looking better.

Today our fear was realized when there was no longer a heartbeat.

It's been a trying few weeks, and we will face a few more in the near future as the process comes to a close. We are thankful for the child we have, but it's tough to see a heartbeat, knowing that your child is there, and then have it disappear a few days later...everything happens for a reason, and yes the 50/50 applies here as well, but it still suck.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:26 pm
by assateague
I feel your pain. Prayers sent up for all of you. These things have a way of working out, brother.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:30 pm
by flight control
Sorry to hear that man. Thoughts and prayers sent out.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:32 pm
by rebelp74
Very sorry to hear this. Prayers sent bro, hope all goes well for you and your family.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:34 pm
by Redbeard
Praying for ya brother

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:35 pm
by jehler
Been there, head up and keep
Smiling, your wife will feed of your optimism and positive outlook. Time to be the strong emotionless man and hold her tight

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:37 pm
by Feelin' Fowl
Thanks boys. Truly appreciated...

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:40 pm
by Goldfish
I'm sorry to hear that. When the time is right, things will happen.

sent from a phancy fone

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:45 pm
by bill herian
Hate to hear it.

Prayers for you and yours. Stay strong bud.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:47 pm
by MuddyWaterWarlock
Sorry to hear dude. You and your wife keep your chins up. :thumbsup:

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 8:47 pm
by The Duck Hammer
That's terrible man. Praying for y'all in Texas.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 9:04 pm
by Tiler_J
Sorry to hear that. My wife had a miscarriage our first time trying to have kids. It is a horrible feeling. You and your wife will be in my thoughts. Try and stay as positive and supportive as you can with her. I know with my wife, she admitted later, she felt like it was her fault. That she could have done something different and everything would have been fine.

You are right though, it does suck! Take care of and enjoy your family. My condolences.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 9:27 pm
by 3legged_lab
Sorry to hear that man, been down that road too. Just give her time, women usually take it pretty rough.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 9:31 pm
by DeadEye_Dan
So sorry to hear. Life is a precious, precious thing and I'm sure it hurts to go through this.

Prayers for you and your family.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 10:18 pm
by Pungo
Sorry to hear that, Praying for you. My mom had a miscarriage when I was young. A few years later, they had my brother. They had decided to stop at 2 kids no matter what. Can't help but think about the brother I was blessed with, he would not be here if it wasn't for the miscarriage. God has a plan, stay strong!

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 10:22 pm
by GadwallGetter530
Sorry man, it's a hard thing to go threw.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 11:17 pm
by Feelin' Fowl
Thanks for the support. Lots of good advice in here...she'll appreciate it.

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PostPosted: Thu May 30, 2013 11:22 pm
by jarbo03
Prayers sent for you and the family, been there myself, it is a terrible feeling. Stay strong.

Sent from a gnarly phone with a kickstand

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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 4:07 am
by BrewGUN
Prayers brotha, definitely a hard thing to deal with, stay strong.

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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 5:34 am
by Rick
The little fellow who slept between his grandmother and I last night came about after a series of heartbreaking miscarriages. Tough all around but especially a "roller coaster" for your wife, from what I've seen. Be there and be patient and you'll get through it alright.

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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 6:06 am
by aunt betty
Sorry to hear it.
If it helps...we lost one too.
I didn't speak a word for almost three MONTHS after ours. (hard to imagine)
It'll be alright.

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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 9:34 am
by OGblackcloud
Prayers sent

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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 10:14 am
by Tomkat
God has a plan FF.

Keep the faith.

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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 1:50 pm
by Ducky192
YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY PRAYERS BUDDY.

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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 2:04 pm
by one2many
love and prayers brother

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PostPosted: Fri May 31, 2013 8:13 pm
by quacknstack6
Prayers sent for you and the family man, I can't begin to understand what it its like... Keep your head up everything will be fine.

Sent while protecting freedom

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 12:38 am
by Feelin' Fowl
Surgery in the AM. Anxious to get this part over with and start moving on.

Thanks again boys.

I think this is where something clever about tapatalk should go.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 1:21 am
by AKPirate
Prayers sent from AK for you and your family FF.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 1:46 am
by rebelp74
Feelin' Fowl wrote:Surgery in the AM. Anxious to get this part over with and start moving on.

Thanks again boys.

I think this is where something clever about tapatalk should go.

Hope all goes well bro, prayers continued.

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PostPosted: Mon Jun 03, 2013 9:05 am
by grizz18
PRayers and thought sent.