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shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:25 pm
by one2many
travels got shortened due to my child fucking up.
have had troubles with her since this summer. she was cutting herself and acting out.
we thought we had things on the right tract. i left for a small trip and came back to things all fucked up. her and i got into a huge fight and we didnt talk for a month.
she started cutting again and was wanting to kill herself. my folks and her mother had her put in the hospital for help.
she was in for about 3 weeks. she was still acting out so im home. hope i have ant strength and patience do get her on the right side of this shit.
she is my life and with out her i would be devastated.
i think i will pack her up this weekend and head out to mom and dads vacation home in Colorado, when Thanksgiving is over i have got to get back to business.
i just dont know what to do other then tie her up and never let her go
FML
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:27 pm
by The Duck Hammer
Praying for you buddy. Sounds worse than rough up there.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:30 pm
by assateague
Prayers sent, Jeffy. I have no idea what you're going through, but it doesn't sound easy or pleasant. Hang tough, brother.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:33 pm
by 3legged_lab
That don't sound good bud, hope everything works out in the best way.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:34 pm
by DC727
Prayers up for you bud. Stay strong
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Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:35 pm
by one2many
thanks guys. it means a lot to me. see you all late night tonight going to go to dinner with her and just hang out and talk.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:49 pm
by jarbo03
Prayers sent Jeffy.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:59 pm
by QH's Paw
one2many wrote:thanks guys. it means a lot to me. see you all late night tonight going to go to dinner with her and just hang out and talk.
"hang out and talk" That's a good plan, daily.
I haven't been through it personally but, I've seen others go through it. Stay strong, there is no abbreviated version for getting down the road you are headed. Just be there for her and make sure she knows you're there for her.
We'll keep you and your family in our prayers.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 7:01 pm
by (MT)Montanafowler
prayers sent, hang tough bro.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 7:56 pm
by Feelin' Fowl
assateague wrote:Prayers sent, Jeffy. I have no idea what you're going through, but it doesn't sound easy or pleasant. Hang tough, brother.
This, and what the others said.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 7:59 pm
by Olly
That's rough man, I hope you can connect with her and let her know that she really is loved and needed in this world. Sometimes being a teenager can be hard.
Re: **** its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 8:02 pm
by goosehunter64
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It's a very tough situation...keep looking for way to solve them...you'll make it, I'm sure

Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 8:02 pm
by JGUN
Praying for all of you. Sounds rough.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 9:03 pm
by rebelp74
Prayers sent bro. Sorry to hear it and hope all gets better.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 9:43 pm
by Flightstopper
Without kids I can't even fathom how rough it is. Good vibes out to ya both.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 10:19 pm
by AKPirate
Prayers sent from AK. Friends daughter did that and it took a lot of counseling. She got over it and is good now.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 10:27 pm
by Bootlipkiller
Flightstopper wrote:Without kids I can't even fathom how rough it is. Good vibes out to ya both.
X2 sorry to hear.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 10:30 pm
by Redbeard
I'll be sure to keep y'all in our prayers Jeffy. Keep you're chin buddy. Hate hearing stuff like this
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 11:19 pm
by assateague
Redbeard wrote:I'll be sure to keep y'all in our prayers Jeffy. Keep you're chin buddy. Hate hearing stuff like this
Because without a chin, you're fucked.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Fri Nov 22, 2013 11:20 pm
by The Duck Hammer
Re: shit its cold at home

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Sat Nov 23, 2013 1:50 am
by one2many
thanks for the kind words guys.
the two of us had a long talk over dinner. tore the hell out of some tacos and fixings. nice to be home. beats the hell out of Uni. MERICA!!!!!
Re: shit its cold at home

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Sat Nov 23, 2013 6:23 am
by RickC
Prayers for you both man. Between my wife and I we have 3 and I had a rough time with my son but things have since then gotten much better. He's in boot camp and a SF candidate. Sometimes they get off course and just need to be guided back. We wish you both the best.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Sat Nov 23, 2013 9:50 am
by RonE
I used to have foster children and teenage girls are a PITA at times....I believed I actually helped a few of them but didn't know that I had until years later.
I wish you all the luck in the world with your daughter.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:03 am
by flight control
That sounds rough man. I'll keep your family in my prayers. Sounds like you're on the right track by spending time together.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:12 am
by NuffDaddy
flight control wrote:That sounds rough man. I'll keep your family in my prayers. Sounds like you're on the right track by spending time together.
X2. Prayers sent
Re: shit its cold at home

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Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:17 am
by Goldfish
Man, that's some heavy shit. I'd have no idea where to even start. I hope you can resolve whatever it is that is causing the pain. That's really tough to hear. I'm certain everyone here is pulling for ya. Just make sure to vent your frustrations here and not at home.
Re: shit its cold at home

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Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:19 am
by OGblackcloud
Prayers sent
Re: shit its cold at home

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Sat Nov 23, 2013 12:57 pm
by one2many
thanks guys.right now things are getting better for her and between the two of us. we are leaving tomorrow for Colorado. i hope some isolation from the world for a few days will help us both out.
thanks again guys
Re: **** its cold at home

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Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:14 pm
by Deltaman
Love her as hard as you can.........Good Luck, we're rooting for you!
Re: **** its cold at home

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Sun Nov 24, 2013 12:58 pm
by ea oneal
put u and your,s in my talk to the man last night .all the best to you .