My oldest daughter is a little past two and a half. For a while now we've noticed that she she seemed rather uncoordinated and awkward while doing normal tasks like coloring. It's looking like she may be suffering from what is most commonly known as being "left handed". Please keep little Brookie Bear in your thoughts, and maybe say a little prayer that she won't be the kid in class that has to use the special green scissors.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2014 11:57 pm
by Ajverret
My moms a lefty and a lot of guys I worked with. Hell I swing a bat and golf clubs lefty but to everything else right handed.
Don't be ashamed if ur lefty they are a special breed. Just buy her a pair of scissors only she can use
Re: Bummer
Posted: Sun Aug 17, 2014 11:59 pm
by Duckdog
Buy her a softball for her birthday! It would suck to be left handed and right eye dominant though...
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 12:02 am
by Ajverret
Duckdog wrote:Buy her a softball for her birthday! It would suck to be left handed and right eye dominant though...
In the youth hunter ed club I coach we have a couple of kids like that
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 12:23 am
by Feelin' Fowl
Hahaha! I don't think our 3 year old has figured it out yet...she uses both off and on.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 8:02 am
by quackhead
Berry sorry to hear. She's not a ginger also is she?
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 8:34 am
by clampdaddy
quackhead wrote:Berry sorry to hear. She's not a ginger also is she?
Oh, heavens no. Luckily, she's pretty enough that its possible no one will notice her handicap.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 8:51 am
by bill herian
No hand-me-down guns for her. Get out the checkbook daddy.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 9:00 am
by hudson
It ain't that bad I write right handed and shoot a right handed shotgun left handed and shoot my bow left.i throw with my left and all in all I'm normal
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 9:02 am
by clampdaddy
bill herian wrote:No hand-me-down guns for her. Get out the checkbook daddy.
I wonder who I'd have to get in touch with to put on a "Guns for Kids" telethon.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 9:05 am
by clampdaddy
hudson wrote:It ain't that bad I write right handed and shoot a right handed shotgun left handed and shoot my bow left.i throw with my left and all in all I'm normal
You call that normal? Tell me, how long did it take Dr. Xavier to teach you to use your mutant powers?
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 9:08 am
by Woody
clampdaddy wrote:
bill herian wrote:No hand-me-down guns for her. Get out the checkbook daddy.
I wonder who I'd have to get in touch with to put on a "Guns for Kids" telethon.
In California, probably this lady...
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 9:18 am
by hudson
clampdaddy wrote:
hudson wrote:It ain't that bad I write right handed and shoot a right handed shotgun left handed and shoot my bow left.i throw with my left and all in all I'm normal
You call that normal? Tell me, how long did it take Dr. Xavier to teach you to use your mutant powers?
hahahahaha just feels natural to me, idk I don't have problems.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 9:21 am
by SpinnerMan
clampdaddy wrote:
hudson wrote:It ain't that bad I write right handed and shoot a right handed shotgun left handed and shoot my bow left.i throw with my left and all in all I'm normal
You call that normal? Tell me, how long did it take Dr. Xavier to teach you to use your mutant powers?
I don't see anything abnormal about that. It's pretty common in my family.
My Dad shoots left handed, throws right hand, ... He would write with his left, but the nun's beat that out of him at an early age
A few years ago, I was looking for another bow for bowfishing. I asked my Dad if I could have his. He hasn't used it in probably 20 years. He said sure. About a week later, I called back and asked if it was left hand or right handed. He couldn't remember He went and looked. It was left handed, which doesn't work for me.
My youngest brother is mostly a lefty, but shoots right handed and various things like that.
Not a lefty, but my left hand is not useless like so many righties. My regular hunting partner, I was standing in the water at the top of my hip boots nailing some stuff on the boat hide. I put the first few nails in right handed, when I couldn't put any more in right handed, I just switched hands instead of trying to reposition without going over my boots, and continued with my left. He about freaked. He couldn't believe I could pound nails with both hands
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 9:40 am
by clampdaddy
Woody wrote:In California, probably this lady...
Nobody wants to see that shit. Damn near lost my breakfast.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 11:16 am
by Duckdog
There's no doubt that lefties usually become more ambidextrous than righties ever do, which is a good thing! My left is practically useless, (even more so now!), but I sure wouldn't want to be cross dominant.
An old high school buddy of mine was left handed and right eye dominant and watching him shoot was just...weird. I don't know if he was taught that way, or if it was just what worked for him being handed right handed guns as a kid, but He would hold a shot gun like a lefty with his right hand forward, but bring the stock to his right shoulder! I didn't even notice it for years, and then one day I noticed it and was like,..."WTF?"
Watching lefties run a worm drive skil saw looks really weird to me too. When I used to coach baseball, teaching a kid to hit was really tough when they were cross dominant.
If it were me, and my kid, I'd check their eyes and work around them. Not saying to force a lefty to become right, but I'd sure try to make them ambi if they're gonna be cross dominant.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 11:30 am
by clampdaddy
Duckdog wrote:There's no doubt that lefties usually become more ambidextrous than righties ever do, which is a good thing! My left is practically useless, (even more so now!), but I sure wouldn't want to be cross dominant.
An old high school buddy of mine was left handed and right eye dominant and watching him shoot was just...weird. I don't know if he was taught that way, or if it was just what worked for him being handed right handed guns as a kid, but He would hold a shot gun like a lefty with his right hand forward, but bring the stock to his right shoulder! I didn't even notice it for years, and then one day I noticed it and was like,..."WTF?"
Watching lefties run a worm drive skil saw looks really weird to me too. When I used to coach baseball, teaching a kid to hit was really tough when they were cross dominant.
If it were me, and my kid, I'd check their eyes and work around them. Not saying to force a lefty to become right, but I'd sure try to make them ambi if they're gonna be cross dominant.
Honestly, I could care less if she ends up being left handed. Daddy will buy her as many left handed guns as she wants. Just trying to lighten the mood around here a little.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 1:27 pm
by banknote
clampdaddy wrote:My oldest daughter is a little past two and a half. For a while now we've noticed that she she seemed rather uncoordinated and awkward while doing normal tasks like coloring. It's looking like she may be suffering from what is most commonly known as being "left handed". Please keep little Brookie Bear in your thoughts, and maybe say a little prayer that she won't be the kid in class that has to use the special green scissors.
Congratulations. Many of the most talented and intelligent people I've known are left-handed.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 6:48 pm
by assateague
My daughter used both until she was almost 5 (which I think is pretty common), but then switched to righty pretty quick. My father and my FIL are both leftys, so thought it might stick. Like Bank said, I was sort of hoping, because the most creative people I know are left-handed.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 6:52 pm
by Ajverret
I'm right handed but beat it with my left I'm totally ambidextrous
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 7:18 pm
by Olly
clampdaddy wrote:My oldest daughter is a little past two and a half. For a while now we've noticed that she she seemed rather uncoordinated and awkward while doing normal tasks like coloring. It's looking like she may be suffering from what is most commonly known as being "left handed". Please keep little Brookie Bear in your thoughts, and maybe say a little prayer that she won't be the kid in class that has to use the special green scissors.
Let me welcome her to the club.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Mon Aug 18, 2014 8:25 pm
by Pintail
I'm totally right handed except in basketball. Weird.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 8:12 am
by FlintRiverFowler
Pintail wrote:I'm totally right handed except in basketball. Weird.
I thought all basketball players were lefties.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 11:03 am
by firstflight
clampdaddy wrote:
quackhead wrote:Berry sorry to hear. She's not a ginger also is she?
Oh, heavens no. Luckily, she's pretty enough that its possible no one will notice her handicap.
Damn that's bad LMAO .
Re: Bummer
Posted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 10:26 pm
by Glimmerjim
assateague wrote:My daughter used both until she was almost 5 (which I think is pretty common), but then switched to righty pretty quick. My father and my FIL are both leftys, so thought it might stick. Like Bank said, I was sort of hoping, because the most creative people I know are left-handed.
That's weird, isn't it? I would have to agree. They just seem to be more creative, artistic, free-thinking. I love the baseball swing of a good lefty like Sandoval or Will Clark. They are just so smooth and fluid. Odd thing. I have heard much about the left and right sides of the brain and their relative propensity to be strong in either artistic, creative endeavors or logical, mathematical ones. Puzzling. .......wait a minute....the left side of my brain said there was nothing puzzling about it.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Tue Aug 19, 2014 11:09 pm
by clampdaddy
Glimmerjim wrote: ...... I love the baseball swing of a good lefty like Sandoval or Will Clark. They are just so smooth and fluid.....
Will Clark was the man.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Wed Aug 20, 2014 11:41 am
by Glimmerjim
clampdaddy wrote:
Glimmerjim wrote: ...... I love the baseball swing of a good lefty like Sandoval or Will Clark. They are just so smooth and fluid.....
Will Clark was the man.
Probably my #1 baseball player, cd!
Re: Bummer
Posted: Wed Aug 20, 2014 12:01 pm
by clampdaddy
Glimmerjim wrote:
clampdaddy wrote:
Glimmerjim wrote: ...... I love the baseball swing of a good lefty like Sandoval or Will Clark. They are just so smooth and fluid.....
Will Clark was the man.
Probably my #1 baseball player, cd!
Me too. A genuine old school, tobacco chewin', bad ass, ball player.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Wed Aug 20, 2014 12:34 pm
by Rick
Hunted with us in the "waaaay back when he was a young buck" and wasn't afraid to get out of the blind to get shooting.
Re: Bummer
Posted: Wed Aug 20, 2014 1:17 pm
by SpinnerMan
Glimmerjim wrote:
assateague wrote:My daughter used both until she was almost 5 (which I think is pretty common), but then switched to righty pretty quick. My father and my FIL are both leftys, so thought it might stick. Like Bank said, I was sort of hoping, because the most creative people I know are left-handed.
That's weird, isn't it? I would have to agree. They just seem to be more creative, artistic, free-thinking. I love the baseball swing of a good lefty like Sandoval or Will Clark. They are just so smooth and fluid. Odd thing. I have heard much about the left and right sides of the brain and their relative propensity to be strong in either artistic, creative endeavors or logical, mathematical ones. Puzzling. .......wait a minute....the left side of my brain said there was nothing puzzling about it.
I think at least a part of it, if true, was hinted at in Outlier.
Lefties are outsiders in a right-handed world. To compensate with being an outsider or the liberty that comes with it, however you want to look at it, they are statistically different.
It is also a good mental exercise to learn to do things opposite handed. In a right-handed world, lefties are all but forced to engage in this mental exercise and to do so at a young age. Try switching some routine thing. It makes the brain work, which is a good thing.
I would never describe the left handed members of my family as being more creative, artistic, free-thinking than the righties. It may simply be nothing more than when you observe a righty, you do not identify them as such. However, when you observe a lefty doing the same thing, you do identify them as such since it is different and unusual and it is nothing more than observation bias.