don novicki wrote: Neither of us has a pension. We were not fortunate enough to work somewhere it was offered
If you had a pension, you would not know for sure where you stand. Losing a job at 64 is tough. Finding out your pension is insolvent at 74 is disastrous. They are far too great a risk for me and they tie you needlessly to a job that you may want to leave. Something I gave serious consideration to over the last couple years. With a pension, this would not be an option for a guy that is closer to 50 than 40. Pensions don't have any secret math for ensuring you get a secure retirement and they invest in the same things that you have available. It's just done by people who you hope are not corrupt or idiots and it needlessly ties you to your employer or your union.
I don't want to veer off, but I suspect you did something that my in-laws did and so many people do.
don novicki wrote:We lost almost everything in the crash of 08. Some of what we had has come back a little but not to where it was before.
What is the goal of trading? To buy low and sell high. So when stock prices are low, you buy and when they are high then you sell. But what my in-laws did and a huge number of people did was what you must have done. When prices were going high, you bought and when they went low you sold. 180 degrees opposite. You locked in your losses. It is a very common mistake. Everyone knows they should buy when prices are low and sell when prices are high, but people focus on what they could have made (so they buy after the prices have gone high) and focus on what they could have saved (so they sell after the prices are low). They close the barn door after the horses have run away.
Hopefully others can learn from your mistake. It is exceedingly common. I just read a news article that shocked me as to how many millions of people did exactly what you did. Sorry to hear that.
And I think trading is for fools. A nice thing available today that you probably didn't have are target date retirement funds. They adjust the mix of stocks and bonds and things appropriate for your age. You just buy every month and don't have to worry about these ups and downs exactly like people do with pensions if that is your personal preference. That is what everyone that would prefer a pension should do and simply and completely ignore the ups and downs of the markets. You don't get monthly statements telling you about the huge swings in the value of your pension fund. They took a huge hit in '08 as well, but they stayed the course because unless we get like Japan where the price to earning was 100 as opposed to 24 and it should be around 15 to 20, any downs will recover in a few years if the government doesn't "help." And that is what happened in '08 and will probably happen again sometime in the next few years. If it does, do not sell AFTER and lock in losses.