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shit its cold at home

Postby one2many » Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:25 pm

travels got shortened due to my child fucking up.
have had troubles with her since this summer. she was cutting herself and acting out.
we thought we had things on the right tract. i left for a small trip and came back to things all fucked up. her and i got into a huge fight and we didnt talk for a month.
she started cutting again and was wanting to kill herself. my folks and her mother had her put in the hospital for help.
she was in for about 3 weeks. she was still acting out so im home. hope i have ant strength and patience do get her on the right side of this shit.
she is my life and with out her i would be devastated.
i think i will pack her up this weekend and head out to mom and dads vacation home in Colorado, when Thanksgiving is over i have got to get back to business.
i just dont know what to do other then tie her up and never let her go
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby The Duck Hammer » Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:27 pm

Praying for you buddy. Sounds worse than rough up there.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby assateague » Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:30 pm

Prayers sent, Jeffy. I have no idea what you're going through, but it doesn't sound easy or pleasant. Hang tough, brother.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby 3legged_lab » Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:33 pm

That don't sound good bud, hope everything works out in the best way.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby DC727 » Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:34 pm

Prayers up for you bud. Stay strong

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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby one2many » Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:35 pm

thanks guys. it means a lot to me. see you all late night tonight going to go to dinner with her and just hang out and talk.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby jarbo03 » Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:49 pm

Prayers sent Jeffy.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby QH's Paw » Fri Nov 22, 2013 6:59 pm

one2many wrote:thanks guys. it means a lot to me. see you all late night tonight going to go to dinner with her and just hang out and talk.

"hang out and talk" That's a good plan, daily.
I haven't been through it personally but, I've seen others go through it. Stay strong, there is no abbreviated version for getting down the road you are headed. Just be there for her and make sure she knows you're there for her.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby (MT)Montanafowler » Fri Nov 22, 2013 7:01 pm

prayers sent, hang tough bro.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby Feelin' Fowl » Fri Nov 22, 2013 7:56 pm

assateague wrote:Prayers sent, Jeffy. I have no idea what you're going through, but it doesn't sound easy or pleasant. Hang tough, brother.


This, and what the others said.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby Olly » Fri Nov 22, 2013 7:59 pm

That's rough man, I hope you can connect with her and let her know that she really is loved and needed in this world. Sometimes being a teenager can be hard.
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Re: **** its cold at home

Postby goosehunter64 » Fri Nov 22, 2013 8:02 pm

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. It's a very tough situation...keep looking for way to solve them...you'll make it, I'm sure
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby JGUN » Fri Nov 22, 2013 8:02 pm

Praying for all of you. Sounds rough.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby rebelp74 » Fri Nov 22, 2013 9:03 pm

Prayers sent bro. Sorry to hear it and hope all gets better.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby Flightstopper » Fri Nov 22, 2013 9:43 pm

Without kids I can't even fathom how rough it is. Good vibes out to ya both.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby AKPirate » Fri Nov 22, 2013 10:19 pm

Prayers sent from AK. Friends daughter did that and it took a lot of counseling. She got over it and is good now.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby Bootlipkiller » Fri Nov 22, 2013 10:27 pm

Flightstopper wrote:Without kids I can't even fathom how rough it is. Good vibes out to ya both.


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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby Redbeard » Fri Nov 22, 2013 10:30 pm

I'll be sure to keep y'all in our prayers Jeffy. Keep you're chin buddy. Hate hearing stuff like this
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby assateague » Fri Nov 22, 2013 11:19 pm

Redbeard wrote:I'll be sure to keep y'all in our prayers Jeffy. Keep you're chin buddy. Hate hearing stuff like this



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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby The Duck Hammer » Fri Nov 22, 2013 11:20 pm

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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby one2many » Sat Nov 23, 2013 1:50 am

thanks for the kind words guys.
the two of us had a long talk over dinner. tore the hell out of some tacos and fixings. nice to be home. beats the hell out of Uni. MERICA!!!!!
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby RickC » Sat Nov 23, 2013 6:23 am

Prayers for you both man. Between my wife and I we have 3 and I had a rough time with my son but things have since then gotten much better. He's in boot camp and a SF candidate. Sometimes they get off course and just need to be guided back. We wish you both the best.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby RonE » Sat Nov 23, 2013 9:50 am

I used to have foster children and teenage girls are a PITA at times....I believed I actually helped a few of them but didn't know that I had until years later.

I wish you all the luck in the world with your daughter.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby flight control » Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:03 am

That sounds rough man. I'll keep your family in my prayers. Sounds like you're on the right track by spending time together.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby NuffDaddy » Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:12 am

flight control wrote:That sounds rough man. I'll keep your family in my prayers. Sounds like you're on the right track by spending time together.

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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby Goldfish » Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:17 am

Man, that's some heavy shit. I'd have no idea where to even start. I hope you can resolve whatever it is that is causing the pain. That's really tough to hear. I'm certain everyone here is pulling for ya. Just make sure to vent your frustrations here and not at home.
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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby OGblackcloud » Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:19 am

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Re: shit its cold at home

Postby one2many » Sat Nov 23, 2013 12:57 pm

thanks guys.right now things are getting better for her and between the two of us. we are leaving tomorrow for Colorado. i hope some isolation from the world for a few days will help us both out.
thanks again guys
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Re: **** its cold at home

Postby Deltaman » Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:14 pm

Love her as hard as you can.........Good Luck, we're rooting for you!
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Re: **** its cold at home

Postby ea oneal » Sun Nov 24, 2013 12:58 pm

put u and your,s in my talk to the man last night .all the best to you .
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